Saturday, 28 July 2012

history::: friendhip day

Considering the valuable role friends play in our life it was deemed to fit to have a day dedicated to friends and friendship. The United States Congress, in 1935, proclaimed first Sunday of August as the National Friendship Day. Since then, celebration of National Friendship Day became an annual event. The noble idea of honoring the beautiful relationship of friendship caught on with the people and soon Friendship Day became a hugely popular festival.

Following the popularity and success of Friendship Day in US, several other countries adopted the tradition of dedicating a day to friends. Today, Friendship Day is enthusiastically celebrated by several countries across the world including India.


In 1997, the United Nations named
Winnie - the Pooh as the world's Ambassador of Friendship.

Importance of Friendship in Bible

The Bible, the primary text of the western civilization, reflects upon friendship as the bond that forms the foundation to human faith, trust and companionship. Following verses from the bible aptly portray the importance of friends:

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

Matthew 7:7

“Greater love hath no man than this that a man lay down his life for his friends.”

John 15:13-15

Besides, there are several tales from the Old Testament and the New Testament about the value of friendship and how true friendship is a treasure to unearth. A noticeable point is that, both the versions make a difference between the two broad meanings of friendship- one is a mere acquaintance, the other is a more affectionate relation.


In the
Old Testament, Abraham is called the “friend of God” because of the intimacy of his relations. God speaks to Moses face to face “as a man…unto his friend” (Ex 33:11). The romantic friendship of Ruth and Naomi, the devotion of the subordinate Hushai for David, or the mutual relation between David and Jonathan - the Old Testament is replete with these interesting tales of friends and friendship.

In the
New Testament, the relationship between Jesus and his disciples clearly depicts how human friendship can constantly grow. From being teacher and disciple, to lord and servant their relationship finally grew to an unparalleled friendship.

Thursday, 26 July 2012

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i believe this very hard... whatever u want just work on it failures only build u up into a successful person and if because of one failure you just lose your hope may be you will have nothing except to "REGRET" and you never know where you just backed up the very next step was your success..!!!

Wednesday, 25 July 2012

just read..!!

i just read so thought of sharing...!!!

Ever feel like you don’t have the…

* TIME to improve your life or business

* ENERGY to really accelerate your progress

* RELATIONSHIPS and right people in place to make things run smoothly

* Or MONEY that should be coming in for all the hard work you’ve been doing

Here are a few steps I teach my clients to get unstuck fast:

1. Realize that when you say, “I don’t have time”, you’re lying to yourself.

Let me give you an example. Imagine that you’re going about your daily routine, when suddenly the phone rings. It’s a relative telling you that one of your family members has just had a serious accident, and you’d better get to the hospital fast.

Do you say to the person on the phone, “I’m sorry, I don’t have time”?

Of course not! You drop whatever you were doing, jump in the car, and get to the hospital pronto.

Now, was “Go to hospital” on your to-do list for today? Of course not.

But, because you had a greater REASON to go to the hospital than NOT go to the hospital, you MADE the time.

My point is not that you should live your life in “crisis-mode”. The point is, whatever you determine to be TRULY important, is what you do each day.

2. If you want to attract the right people, you must become the right person.

I often ask my clients a blunt question: “Would YOU want to be around you?” Many people sheepishly answer, “Not really.”

All human beings are wearing two invisible signs. The first sign says, “Please make me feel important.” The second sign says, “Help me first.”

The problem is, everyone is waiting around for everyone else to go first!

Be the one who goes first. The more you acknowledge, appreciate, and seek to serve others, the greater the number of great people will be drawn to you.

3. Focus on what you HAVE, not on what you lack.

Most people are suffering from the disease of “not-enoughness”. This comes from focusing on what you don’t have, which produces more feelings of not-having!

Every night before you go to sleep, write 5 things you’re grateful for. This will build feelings of confidence and self-worth.

4. Use AFFORMATIONS.

No, that’s not a misprint. In 1997, I discovered AFFORMATIONS — empowering questions that change your subconscious thought patterns from negative to positive.

For example, you’ve probably used “affirmations” like, “I am rich.” And your brain replies, “Yeah, right!”

Instead of a statement you don’t believe, using AFFORMATIONS causes your mind to search for why you are, in fact, rich. That’s why changing the questions will change your life.

just njoy...!!!!

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dont know..!!

i really sometimes fed up of comparisons.. i mean why people compare its okay everybody is not having same mental status same i.Q level but thats fine its not ki there is only one field to grabb on every body has got his/her interest but.. thats just stupid to say ...!!! i cant tolerate so if anybody compares sameone with anyone or to me i ant resist my anger...!!!
everybody is not same...!!!

Tuesday, 24 July 2012

sometimes...!!!

sometimes whenever you watch any movie or anything on screen sometimes.. no actually most of the times its like you feel that the characters in it one of them is exactly same.. many a times i get really influenced i mean i know that's just impractical those are the stories written by the script writers but ours its a mixture by the almighty and the makers of our life we ourself... life is what you make it..huh..!! but yar YYYYYYY is it ki sometimes i really realize some great things..it get connected with my life but...still..its just a movie in the end..!!!